1. What was life like before you started working with me? (What was your biggest fear? How did you doubt yourself? What were you struggling with?
"I felt like I was in a deep hole with no sight of light and any prospects of being able to see the light again. I was confused by this, as on paper my life should have been incredible- married with three healthy kids, good job (working for myself) and no financial pressure. I was struggling as I felt my wife had lost interest in me (sexually and emotionally) and I was no longer important in her world. I took rejection from her badly, be in it ranging from sex to just wanting to be with me. I feel I did not have a strong sense of self worth and needed praise from others (especially my wife) to make myself feel worthy. I was a typical “Mr Nice Guy” always doing things to try and please others only for the sake of obtaining praise. In doing things, I expected things in return and if they didn’t happen I’d get sad and moody. It was not a good head space to be in... "
2. What did you try that didn't work?
"As touched on above, I tried being the Nice Guy, which clearly wasn’t working. I didn’t actually realise it at the time, but when working with Mark, this became very clear. I was also doing things to please my wife that I didn’t really want to do- just to get her acceptance. I was only kidding myself and I felt she picked up on this and it repelled her."
3. There was a moment just before you sent the payment to work with me. What was the
main reason, doubt or insecurity that was holding you back from signing up?
"What can Mark tell me I don’t already know. I’m not a self help kind of guy, I’m a man who can work out this shit without needing the help from others… how totally wrong I was!!! If you’re out there sitting on the fence about the investment with Mark, I recommend hit button go!"
4. Where are you now? (What successes have you had? How has life changed? What were the tiny insights that made the biggest difference?)
"I’m awesome. Sure I have some down moments, as does everybody (people are lying if they tell you they don’t), but I’m out of that metaphoric hole and have a complete 360 degree view around me. Without being arrogant and putting myself in front of the well-being of my family, I am marching to the beat of my own drum and am appreciated how great my life is when I don’t place any dependence on my happiness in the hands of others- especially my wife. I know I am fine and will always be fine."
