THIS IS WHAT I HEAR IN YOUR LIVING ROOM:
SHE SAYS:
• I love you but I'm not in love with you...
• I'm bored, we never do anything fun...
• If you had been more of a man I wouldn't needed to have an affair...
• You don't understand me...
• I can't trust you...
• You have no passion...
• I'm not attracted to you anymore...
• You don't understand me...
• I can't rely on you...
YOU THINK:
• I'm not good enough for her to stay!
• I'm not attractive enough for her to want me!
• I'm not man enough to keep the family together!
• I'm not a good father!
• I'm going to die alone!
• I'm going to be financially ruined!
• I did everything she wanted!
• I'm a failure!
• Marriage is forever!
• How dare she lie to me and betray my trust!
• This will be the end of me.....
WHEN YOU DON'T RELY ON ANYBODY
YOU'RE FREE TO GIVE TO EVERYBODY
When you rely on things OUTSIDE of you to define who you are then you will crumble when they are taken away.
You are a slave to them.
You have relied on others for your happiness for too long!
Its time to BE self-reliant and stand on your own two feet.
NO Games, NO Manipulation, NO Pick Up Artistry, NO Bullshit.
"The bad news is you’re falling through the air, nothing to hang on to, no parachute. The good news is there’s no ground."